attributes

top 10:

1. compassionate
2. open-minded
3. loyal
4. good at communication
5. enthusiastic
6. decisive
7. considerate
8. genuine
9. vulnerable
10. reliable

bonus points:

1. funny
2. expressive
3. mature
4. optimistic
5. respectful
6. romantic
7. sexy
8. sentimental
9. warm
10. ambititious
11. gentle

suli's list:
1. compassionate
2. open-minded
3. loyal
4. good at communication
• could only communicate positive things
5. enthusiastic
6. decisive
• 
  
7. considerate
• was very rash when breaking up? broke up without lot of thought which is like not the same message he was sending before
8. gentle
9. genuine
10. vulnerable
11. expressive
12. mature
• was neither immature nor mature, but he could still grow
13. optimistic
14. respectful
15. reliable
• kept making promises he couldn't keep
16. romantic
17. sexy
18. sentimental
• just not sentimental
19. warm
20. ambititious

allie's list:
1. compassionate
2. open-minded
3. loyal
4. good at communication
• could only communicate positive things
5. enthusiastic
• not within relationship as unsure it would work
6. decisive
• indecisive in general + about breaking up
7. considerate
8. gentle
9. genuine
10. vulnerable
11. expressive
• could've expressed emotions better
12. mature
13. optimistic
• not within relationship because so far away
14. respectful
15. reliable
16. romantic
17. sexy
18. sentimental
19. warm
20. ambititious
• not ambitious